In New Zealand dating culture differs greatly from what one might find in the United States. Rather than go on dates with a partner for a long period of time before marrying, New Zealanders may never go on a formal date before getting married. Although they are described as a friendly and open people, they are not quite as open with their expression of personal and romantic feelings towards one another. It is typical, especially among the younger age group, to find a partner among a large group of friends or on the peripheral area of your own group and get close to them during group outings. When out together, women are generally equal to men, and this is shown in the splitting of the bill. Men in New Zealand are not expected to foot the entire bill and it is usually split fairly.
Another important aspect to dating culture in New Zealand is the bar. The bar or pub is the main hookup place for the younger generation as well as the older. Since New Zealanders are shy to express their personal feelings or initiate courtship, alcohol is used as a way to facilitate the process. Many times, dating may start first from a sexual relationship and then move to activities such as going places with their partner and his/her friends. Aside from dating culture, New Zealanders are more open with their invitations to go on outings and are inclusive in their communities. They tend to have a wide range of acquaintances that they make banter or friendly small talk with but a small, close knit group of people who they consider friends.
Sources
http://www.reddit.com/r/newzealand/comments/1cex9g/dating_in_new_zealand/
https://www.newzealandnow.govt.nz/living-in-nz/tips-for-settling-in/meeting-people
Another important aspect to dating culture in New Zealand is the bar. The bar or pub is the main hookup place for the younger generation as well as the older. Since New Zealanders are shy to express their personal feelings or initiate courtship, alcohol is used as a way to facilitate the process. Many times, dating may start first from a sexual relationship and then move to activities such as going places with their partner and his/her friends. Aside from dating culture, New Zealanders are more open with their invitations to go on outings and are inclusive in their communities. They tend to have a wide range of acquaintances that they make banter or friendly small talk with but a small, close knit group of people who they consider friends.
Sources
http://www.reddit.com/r/newzealand/comments/1cex9g/dating_in_new_zealand/
https://www.newzealandnow.govt.nz/living-in-nz/tips-for-settling-in/meeting-people